Thanksgiving Family Reunion
(above photos by Don Macavoy)
Two years ago my entire family gathered in NJ for a Thanksgiving family reunion. There were between 45 to 50 people expected to attend, so we ended up hosting the event at the town’s fire hall. The creative person inside me was operating in panic-attack mode all summer as I wrestled with the idea of spending a warm and cozy holiday inside a cold, white, sterile building with 8′ tables and metal chairs. You get the picture, right?
I was stressing-out as everyone planned on what delicious food items they would bring to the event. I DON’T COOK!! I do, however, love to decorate. It felt so liberating when I finally told myself that the decorations were just as important of a contribution to the day as were the turkey and the pumpkin pie. I gave myself permission to enjoy decorating and to relax about not liking to cook. Hooray!
I happened upon the decorations by accident, but by so-doing, I learned a very important lesson that I want to share with all of you. Here goes: DO NOT WAIT UNTIL THANKSGIVING TO PURCHASE YOUR THANKSGIVING DECORATIONS. THERE WON’T BE ANYTHING AVAILABLE. The time to buy the decorations is the day after Halloween. We all know that Thanksgiving gets overlooked because immediately after Halloween (and even before) the shelves are wiped clean of anything resembling fall and are filled to the brim with Christmas stuff.
I had been toying around with some ideas to decorate the tables, but it wasn’t until I walked into Michael’s on November 1st to buy some random items that the light bulb went off and everything fell into place. ALL of the fall decorations were 80% off. Yep…Thanksgiving was still three weeks away, but luckily for me, I was able to buy almost everything I needed. I am especially glad I bought everything ahead of time. I needed to take everything with me from Florida (where I live) to NJ (where the party was to be held.) Common sense says to just wait and buy everything in NJ; however, if I had done that, I would have been totally out of luck. The stuff I didn’t buy at Michael’s I bought at Target on November 2nd at 70% off. Take a look:
See the big tree in the very back of the picture? It’s a Halloween tree with orange lighted leaves that was originally $60, but I paid only $18.
The cornucopias, scarecrows and wreaths were .90 cents each at Target.
The wooden village houses were .99 cents each.
The wooden pumpkins were $1.29 each.
The mesh table coverings were marked down to $1.50 per roll at Hobby Lobby. They were actually the only things that I purchased Thanksgiving week…because that is all that was left. I intended to purchase gold chargers, but I couldn’t justify spending $1 per charger when the mesh and the napkins achieved the same effect of having a personalized place setting for each person.
Entertain the Kids
I made sure to have a craft table for the kids, complete with a bean-bag toss that I bought at Target for $1.50.
(above photo by Don Macavoy, below photos by me)
See that metal thing up there above the picture of the sunflower that looks like a metal bees’ nest with orange lights? It is a curiosity cage that I found at Pottery Barn for $3.99. I bought three of them, filled them with twinkling orange Halloween lights, and hung them from the ceiling.
It was a successful event, from the food to the decorations to the family time. We are now on the fifth generation of my grandparent’s progeny. Four generations were represented at the party. I highly recommend hiring a photographer to help out with memorializing your event. That way everyone can relax and leave the picture-taking to someone else. Believe it or not, it is possible to find a photographer to work on Thanksgiving. Once you get the word out, someone will know someone who knows someone who will do it. All of the family photos below were taken by Don Macavoy.
We missed those who weren’t able to attend! But on the bright side, now that all of the decorations have been purchased, and more importantly, are safely stored away in NJ, it will be really easy to repeat this for future Thanksgivings. Anyone up for that? Anyone?