DIY Thanksgiving Place Cards: Story & Tutorial

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DIY Thanksgiving Place Cards

Every year for Thanksgiving we have the pleasure of gathering at my
Aunt Gaye and Uncle Joe’s home.  She sets a lovely table and makes food
that is even lovelier.  Before the evening is over, we draw names for
our Christmas Eve gift exchange.  I’m usually in charge of writing the
names down and making sure that everyone selects a name.  I also have to
make sure that everyone chooses the name of someone who isn’t in their
immediate family.  Whew!

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Last year my cousin Christopher and I had a brilliant (beyond
brilliant) idea…instead of writing down everyone’s name, why don’t we
just use the place cards?  Dah!  Why not?  Why did it take us twenty
something years to figure that out?  Instead of scrambling for paper and
a pen and scissors, why don’t we just use the cute place cards with
everyone’s name on them that are right in front of our eyes????

So we did.  Christopher and I gathered up the place cards, put them in a bowl, and everyone selected their person.

Trouble is, though, that we neglected to have everyone turn in their
chosen place card when they were done.  Some people tore them in half,
some people rolled them up, and some people used them as wrappers for
their chewed gum.

Oops.

My aunt was so upset.  Turns out that what seemed like an
insignificant part of our Thanksgiving festivities (names on a piece of
paper) was actually something that caused my aunt a lot of angst.  She
went to a lot of trouble to ensure that all of the cards matched, that
the font size was perfect, etc.  When we gathered up the cards for our
name-pulling event, we gave no thought to the time and effort that she
put in to making sure the place cards were as perfect as everything else
that day.

(I call this story “Guilt by Association” because I put the blame on
Christopher and he put the blame on me…we had no idea how much we
would hurt her feelings, so neither of us wanted to take
responsibility.  Shame on us!)

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Needless to say, I have spent the last year searching and searching
for the perfect place cards to replace the ones that were ruined last
year.  I have been determined to make amends.

Have you ever tried to find Thanksgiving place cards?  It’s not an easy task.

My aunt’s birthday is next week (just a couple of weeks before
Thanksgiving) so I decided to make her new cards.  I’m confident that
giving the gift of HANDMADE will make up for last year’s debacle and
erase the feelings of being ungrateful for her efforts that she thought we
had.

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You can make these, too!!!!  Even though there are a lot of steps and supplies involved, they are pretty easy to make. 

All of the supplies I used are from Stampin’ Up!.  I made these a couple of years ago, so some of the exact items are no longer available, but I’ve included similar items in the slide show below.  Just click on an image if you would like to order it.

SUPPLIES:

Specialty Designer Series Paper:  substitute what I used with Petals and Paisleys Designer Series Paper (Item #142017)

Card Stock substitute what I used with the Petals and Paisley Cardstock Pack (Item#142018) and Copper Foil Sheets (Item #142020)

Punches:  substitute what I used with either the Owl Builder Punch (Item #118074) or the Fox Builder Punch (Item#141470)

Ribbonsubstitute what I used with the 3/8″ Ribbon Trio Pack (Item #142021)

Accessoriesfor the top, substitute the punched hole and brad with the Gold Binder Clips (Items #141673)

Additional Items chipboard, Mod Podge, googly eyes, sanding block
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First, BEFORE you cut the squares for the place cards, adhere the decorative paper to the chipboard with Mod Podge:

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Next, cut squares with the rotary cutter 1-7/8″ x 1-7/8″

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3)  Distress the sides of each place card with the sanding blocks

4)  Attach a gold binder clip to the top of each place card

5)  Attach cut ribbons to the gold binder clip

6)  Punch and adhere the owl or fox and decorate the place card to your taste

7)  Print out names onto Very Vanilla card stock (from the Petals and Paisleys Card Stock Pack.)  Punch or cut out names and adhere to each place card.

8)  To make the stands, cut a piece of cardstock 1-1/2″ x 3″ and score at 1-1/2″.  Fold on score line and adhere one side to the back of each place card.

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Why I Hate Theme Parks

Orthostatic Hypotension

I can’t stand on my feet for more than a minute or two without feeling like I’m going to collapse.  Whenever I stand in line at the grocery store or stand anywhere for that matter, I sway back and forth, assume the tree pose, or crouch down and end up sitting on the floor.  I thought I was just really out-of-shape.  I hated myself for being so unhealthy!  I never understood why I never had much energy.  I felt like a failure because just the idea of going to theme parks with my family was torture for me. I never knew why.  I never connected the dots that my lack of energy and my disdain for Disney World were connected.  Until I found out why.  I’ve always known I have low blood pressure, but I found out that I also suffer from orthostatic hypotension – and I can’t STAND it! Continue reading

A Cornual Pregnancy, Chapter Two

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A Cornual Pregnancy, Chapter Two

(For Chapter One, click HERE.)

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several years later in front of Riverside Church in NYC

We booked a hotel close to La Guardia airport so that we could get out of the city as soon as possible after the procedure.  We had to go to Columbia Presbyterian which we learned was in a dangerous area.  I giggle when I think back to how naive we were.  I have visited NYC dozens of times since that day and I love everything about the city; so much so that I feel like I’m home whenever I’m there. I would move there if I could. Our baby girl attends college not too far from the area and attends church in Harlem.  Life is weird like that sometimes.  We’ve come so far.

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What to Expect if You’re an Audience Member at “The View”

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What to Expect if You’re an Audience Member at “The View”

For my dad’s 80th birthday, we surprised him with a trip to NYC to visit the 9/11 Memorial and to witness a live taping of “The View.” (We’ll never let him forget that once we were seated in the audience, he took a look at the stage and asked, “Where are the chairs that spin around?”  Ha!  He thought he was going to a taping of “The Voice!”) I thought it would be helpful to put together a list for you so you know what to expect if you’re an audience member at the view.

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Getting Tickets (p.s. tickets are always free!)

Our decision to surprise my dad didn’t happen until we were watching fifteenth- anniversary ceremonies on September 11th.  We already had a trip to NYC planned – we were going to be in NJ for a wedding, and we were going to be driving our baby girl back to college from NJ to NYC on Sunday, October 16th.  I was surprised at how easy it was to get tickets to the show for October 17th since it was just one month away. I went to this website, answered the questions, and waited only two weeks to receive an email stating that we had secured tickets to the “priority line.”

There is a space on the ticket application that asks something like, “Why Do You Want to Go to ‘The View’.” I don’t remember the exact phrasing, but you get the idea.  I answered truthfully, and you should, too! I don’t know if my answer had anything to do with our securing the tickets so easily, but this is what I wrote:

We’ll be surprising my father with a trip to NYC for his 80th birthday.  Both he and my husband were diagnosed with cancer within one month of each other.  When my father was having his first chemo treatment, my husband was in the same hospital having a tumor removed from his colon.  They both have been cancer-free for five years and we need a reason to have a good laugh.

What to Wear

When you receive the email with your ticket, you are told to wear bright colors to the show.  I wore a red top with black pants, but some people wore nice jeans.  Wear comfortable shoes.

Parking

We drove into the city from NJ, so we had our rental car with us.  We wanted to arrive for the line by 8:30 am, (the ticket says to get in line at 9am, but you’ll want to be at the front of the line.) We were worried that parking would be an issue, and since we were on a time-constraint to leave as soon as the show ended, we reserved a parking space in the Icon Parking Garage not far from ABC Studios. We arrived at the parking garage before 10 am, so we received the early-bird rate of $18.00.  It’s too bad that we had to leave the city as soon as the taping was over because we could have left the car there all day for that price. And it’s valet parking!

Waiting in Line, Part I

When you receive your email confirmation, you’ll be asked to print your confirmation ticket, which shows if you are a “Priority Ticket Holder.”  If you are, it’s pretty certain that you will be admitted.  Make sure that everyone in your party has their id with them because someone from ABC will check your id. (Note:  if you are unable to attend, be sure to notify the ticket company.  Apparently, they keep track of these things and it could hurt your chances the next time you try to get tickets for a show.)

When you arrive at the studio, there are two lines, one for priority ticket holders and one for everyone else.  Luckily, even though it was mid-October, the weather was beautiful.  I couldn’t imagine how uncomfortable it would have been to stand outside in the wind and cold.

Waiting in Line, Part II

After we were allowed into the building, we went through a metal detector.  There were people there to greet us and offered us a complimentary ice-cold bottle of either apple juice or cranberry juice from one of the show’s sponsors.  The show doesn’t start until 11am, and it’s a live show, so this “holding area” is a brilliant idea!  (It’s actually the lunch room area for the ABC commissary.) There are tables and chairs so people can sit and chill or grab a snack from the snack bar while you wait until it’s time to enter the studio.

The one tip I have to mention here is to tell you to use the restroom before you get in line and definitely before you enter the holding area.  There is a time when they will call everyone up who has to use the restroom, but getting from that point to the actual restroom is no easy feat.  You have to wait in another line and they only take about six people at a time.  You are then escorted to another part of the building to use the restroom.  If you gotta go, you gotta go.  But if you can hold it, I would.

There is also a table to purchase “The View” merchandise.  After you buy your souvenirs, they give you a claim ticket to pick up your items after the show.

Before the Show Begins

They take people from the holding area in three different groups into the studio.  The group they call you in doesn’t matter.  There is no preferential treatment when it comes to seating in the studio, and frankly, it doesn’t matter where you sit. (More on that later.)

Roger Lundblade did a fabulous time with audience warm-up.  I enjoyed the fact that it was a live show because things moved along very quickly.  The show HAD to start at 11am and end at noon.

Commercial Breaks

During the commercial breaks, Roger made more jokes and even asked my dad if he was enjoying himself.  There must be someone somewhere watching members of the studio audience because Roger went right up to my dad and pointed out that he had a scowl on his face the entire time.  (I guess he was still pretty upset that we weren’t at “The Voice.”  Actually, my dad was trying to function in NYC with a bad back, and he did pretty well.)  As someone who doesn’t shy away from a photo op, I mentioned to Roger that it was my dad’s 80th birthday and that he was a cancer survivor, and before I knew it, the entire audience was singing “Happy Birthday” to him. 🙂

The Co-Hostesses

This was my only disappointment and it’s the reason why I mentioned that it doesn’t really matter where you sit, because they are going to ignore you.  On the day we were there, the co-hostesses were Whoopi, Candace, Joy, Sarah, and Jedidiah.  I went into this whole “audience member” thing knowing what our role was.  It’s a TV show, and the co-hostesses play to the camera and the home audience. The studio audience is there to make noise.  However, it would have been nice if the co-hostesses acknowledged us!  Aside from answering a couple of audience questions, there was no interaction at all.  I don’t know what goes on before or after the show, but during the show, they do their thing and nothing else.  What a cushy job!

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During the Show

Clay Aiken was the only guest and they showed a video of interviews he did with Trump supporters. We were told to make “ooh” and “aahh” noises while the video was playing.  Once again, it was all about Clay and the women and the cameras.  Even when he walked onto the stage, there was no wave or hello to the studio audience and he was never introduced to the audience.

View Your Deal 

I love “View Your Deal,” and I’ve even purchased a few of the products that they have shown.  I was excited that it was “View Your Day” for us!  We each went home with a Wall Pops! Wall Art Kit and a Berry Breeze Fridge Fresh. (Is it just me, or did “The View” used to give the audience waaay more stuff?)

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After the Show

They dismiss the audience in three sections based on where you are seated.  You leave through a hallway where people hand you a bag with your free items.  You are then led down a few hallways and you exit the building, free to roam the fabulous streets of NYC, just in time for lunch.  And the restroom.

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A Thanksgiving Family Reunion

Thanksgiving Family Reunion

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(above photos by Don Macavoy)

Location

Two years ago my entire family gathered in NJ for a Thanksgiving family reunion.  There were between 45 to 50 people expected to attend, so we ended up hosting the event at the town’s fire hall.  The creative person inside me was operating in panic-attack mode all summer as I wrestled with the idea of spending a warm and cozy holiday inside a cold, white, sterile building with 8′ tables and metal chairs.  You get the picture, right?

I was stressing-out as everyone planned on what delicious food items they would bring to the event.  I DON’T COOK!!  I do, however, love to decorate.  It felt so liberating when I finally told myself that the decorations were just as important of a contribution to the day as were the turkey and the pumpkin pie.  I gave myself permission to enjoy decorating and to relax about not liking to cook.  Hooray!

Decorations

I happened upon the decorations by accident, but by so-doing, I learned a very important lesson that I want to share with all of you.  Here goes:  DO NOT WAIT UNTIL THANKSGIVING TO PURCHASE YOUR THANKSGIVING DECORATIONS.  THERE WON’T BE ANYTHING AVAILABLE.  The time to buy the decorations is the day after Halloween.  We all know that Thanksgiving gets overlooked because immediately after Halloween (and even before) the shelves are wiped clean of anything resembling fall and are filled to the brim with Christmas stuff.

I had been toying around with some ideas to decorate the tables, but it wasn’t until I walked into Michael’s on November 1st to buy some random items that the light bulb went off and everything fell into place.  ALL of the fall decorations were 80% off.  Yep…Thanksgiving was still three weeks away, but luckily for me, I was able to buy almost everything I needed.  I am especially glad I bought everything ahead of time.  I needed to take everything with me from Florida (where I live) to NJ (where the party was to be held.)  Common sense says to just wait and buy everything in NJ; however, if I had done that, I would have been totally out of luck. The stuff I didn’t buy at Michael’s I bought at Target on November 2nd at 70% off.  Take a look:

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See the big tree in the very back of the picture?  It’s a Halloween tree with orange lighted leaves that was originally $60, but I paid only $18.

The cornucopias, scarecrows and wreaths were .90 cents each at Target.

The wooden village houses were .99 cents each.

The wooden pumpkins were $1.29 each.

The mesh table coverings were marked down to $1.50 per roll at Hobby Lobby.  They were actually the only things that I purchased Thanksgiving week…because that is all that was left.  I intended to purchase gold chargers, but I couldn’t justify spending $1 per charger when the mesh and the napkins achieved the same effect of having a personalized place setting for each person.

Entertain the Kids

I made sure to have a craft table for the kids, complete with a bean-bag toss that I bought at Target for $1.50.

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(above photo by Don Macavoy, below photos by me)

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See that metal thing up there above the picture of the sunflower that looks like a metal bees’ nest with orange lights?  It is a curiosity cage that I found at Pottery Barn for $3.99.  I bought three of them, filled them with twinkling orange Halloween lights, and hung them from the ceiling.

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Photographs

It was a successful event, from the food to the decorations to the family time.  We are now on the fifth generation of my grandparent’s progeny.  Four generations were represented at the party.  I highly recommend hiring a photographer to help out with memorializing your event.  That way everyone can relax and leave the picture-taking to someone else. Believe it or not, it is possible to find a photographer to work on Thanksgiving.  Once you get the word out, someone will know someone who knows someone who will do it.   All of the family photos below were taken by Don Macavoy.

Second Generation:

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RIP, Uncle Tony. We miss you. (second from left)

Third Generation:

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Fourth Generation:

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Fifth Generation:

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Everyone!

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We missed those who weren’t able to attend!  But on the bright side, now that all of the decorations have been purchased, and more importantly, are safely stored away in NJ, it will be really easy to repeat this for future Thanksgivings.  Anyone up for that?  Anyone?

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