Decluttering

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Multigenerational Living

I’m in the midst of de-cluttering, cleaning the garage, and transforming our home into a space that is conducive to multigenerational living.  Time sure has flown by!

When we moved into our current home almost 22 years ago, Adrienne was almost two and Erica wasn’t born yet.  This home has taken them from learning to ride bikes to learning to drive cars.

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erica was more interested in doing headstands

Now it’s time to prepare for the next phase of life:  boyfriends and husbands and grandkids.  Oh, my!

Wish me luck this weekend as we de-clutter, rearrange, and transform.

When I made my life’s plan, I must admit that multigenerational living was not included.  Uh oh.

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we celebrated lots of birthdays

I’ll keep you posted with some before and after pictures.

An Easy Way to Give Back this Holiday Season

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An Easy Way to Give Back this Holiday Season

Friends!  Did you know that there is an easy way for you to serve this holiday season and it doesn’t require any additional effort or money on your part?  It’s so easy and will help so many people!

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Amazon Smile

Do you shop on Amazon.com?  If so, all you need to do is enter smile.amazon.com into the address bar instead of just the regular amazon.com.  You will be prompted to select a charity.  When you are prompted, please consider selecting “Cosmetics for a Cause” as your charity of choice. Amazon.com will donate five cents for every $100 you spend directly to Cosmetics for a Cause.  See how easy that is?  It doesn’t cost you anything!  You’ll be shopping Amazon.com anyway, so why not help a charity at the same time?

Cosmetics for a Cause

Since Cosmetics for a Cause was founded, it has grown bigger that we ever imagined.  We never thought we would need money, but unfortunately, we need to pay annual fees to the state and pay to maintain the website.  We also have postage and shipping fees.  It’s not free to run a non-profit charity!  Who knew?  We also desperately need a storage unit.  Currently, the girls’ bedrooms and our garage are full of makeup.  Help!

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More About Cosmetics for a Cause

The purpose of Cosmetics for a Cause is to help women in distressed life situations improve their self-esteem and as a result, become empowered and successful.  We believe that when a woman feels beautiful on the outside, she can begin to gain the inner strength she needs to succeed.  Thus, our mission is “Outer Beauty \ Inner Strength.”

Cosmetics for a Cause was founded in 2012 by Erica Harreveld when she was a junior in high school.  Erica developed a passion for makeup at a young age.  She suffered from acne and used different cosmetics and makeup techniques to cover her blemishes.  She witnessed first-hand how the use of makeup made her feel better about herself.  Erica wanted to help other women and girls gain the same self-esteem.  She quickly put her idea into action and Cosmetics for a Cause was given 501 (c) (3) non-profit status in just a few short months.

To date, Cosmetics for a Cause has collected and distributed over $1.5M in makeup and beauty care items to women in need.

All donations made to Cosmetics for a Cause are tax-deductible.

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Disney World’s Disability Access Service Card

Disability Access Service Card

A couple of posts back, I mentioned why I hate theme parks.  When Erica told me that for her 21st birthday all she wanted was to ride Splash Mountain for the first time, I panicked!  How could I manage a theme park with my baby girl when waiting in lines is impossible for me?  I thought about using a wheelchair, because that would allow me to save my energy for standing in lines instead of using up all of my gusto walking.  I did a little digging and found out that there are other people who can’t wait in lines either, and it has nothing to do with being an impatient jerk, or believing you’re a princess who shouldn’t have to wait like everyone else.  There are other medical conditions that prevent people from standing in lines, and it’s for those people who Disney’s Disability Access Service Card was created.

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Seneca Falls

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Seneca Falls

Why it Matters to Me

Tomorrow, Americans will have the opportunity to vote for a woman for president. This is a monumental moment for me. I’m stepping out of the politics and politicians of it all to give myself a moment to take in just how wonderful this moment is and how long it took for women to get to where we are now. When I was in elementary school, girls had three answers to the question, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” The answers were 1) teacher 2) nurse 3) mother. That was it. Becoming the president of the United States was a fairytale.

We raised our two daughters to know that they could become whatever they wanted to become. They understood what we meant and they ran with it. Now one is in law school and the other in college in NYC. They are both poised to make their individual marks in whatever community they settle as adults.

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Our Road to Seneca Falls

We took a road trip this summer on our way to drop off Erica at college. It was a last-minute decision, and most of the time those are the best decisions. It takes an entire day to leave the state of Florida, so road trips have never been a part of our lives. We already had plane tickets to fly into Philadelphia and we planned on spending a few days in NJ before driving Erica up to NYC. However, we decided to change our plans, and we are so glad we did.

We happened upon Seneca Falls by accident, although I truly believe that there really aren’t any accidents in life. Our trip began in Philadelphia on the first day and ended in Syracuse.

The second day, on our way from Syracuse to Palmyra, we saw a sign that said “Harriet Tubman House.” Erica is an American History major, and since we weren’t on any time schedule, we decided to take a detour. I Googled “Harriet Tubman House” for directions to see how far off the path a detour would take us. I handed Erica my phone because, let’s face it, whenever we have problems with our phones, the first thing we do is ask someone younger than us for help.

While she was looking at the map, she yelled out, “Wait! We’re near Seneca Falls!” And just like that, we were on our way to the birthplace of the Women’s Rights Movement. It turned out to be one of the highlights of our vacation, and with election day tomorrow, I thought today would be the perfect day to share some of my thoughts about the place and a few pictures.

Seneca Falls National Historical Park

First, did you know that the town of Bedford Falls in the movie It’s a Wonderful Life is based on Seneca Falls? Neither did I! I also had no idea that there is a Seneca Falls National Historical Park at the site of the Seneca Falls convention, which was the first Women’s Rights Convention in 1848. It doesn’t take long to visit and it is very informative. Erica was in heaven! So was I!

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The Seneca Falls Convention was held in the Wesleyan Methodist Church July 19-20, 1848.

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I’m a toy fanatic! It was interesting to look at toys for boys and girls over the years:

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Two of my favorite women in history:

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The Womans’ Suffrage Movement began at the Seneca Falls Convention in 1848. SEVENTY TWO YEARS LATER, in 1920, women gained the right to vote.

Please vote tomorrow. Don’t take your right to vote for granted. Don’t let the politics and politicians of this election stop you from taking a few minutes to look back at history and truly reflect on the fact that it took 72 years for us to earn the right to vote, and 240 years to get on the ballot. Amazing.

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